Thursday, June 30, 2011

New York And Rhose Island Got It Right. When Will The Rest Of The Country Follow?

As Pride Month comes to a close, I want to publicly congratulate the states of New York and Rhode Island for recently passing laws allowing same sex unions.

New York Allows Same Sex Marriage

Rhode Island Okays Same Sex Unions

I wonder when the rest of the country will see the light and follow suit?

I am utterly perplexed by the continued resistance to same sex unions.  Let's really try to talk this thing through, shall we? 

I think we are all familiar with the words, "We hold these truths to be self-evident that all men are created equal", and hopefully we are all familiar with the equal protection clause as well as due process guaranteed by the Fifth Amendment of the Bill of Rights.  These things being such a major part of the foundation of our country, I fail to comprehend why a segment of Americans don't feel that these inalienable rights should apply to our gay and lesbian brothers and sisters.  I realize we liberals had to fight these same battles before women and blacks achieved the steps toward equality that they now enjoy.  I guess I shouldn't be surprised that the same forces that tried to repress women and blacks now try to repress gays and lesbians.  I guess I shouldn't be surprised that we have to fight the same fights before gays and lesbians will achieve equality.  Obviously, major victories have been won, but the fight will not be over until same sex couples who are in love are allowed the same legal recognition and protection as their opposite sex brethren.

Here is another thing I don't understand.  The argument that same sex couples cannot procreate children.  Well, sans adoption, a surrogate parent, or a sperm donor, same sex couples cannot have children of their own, but what about same opposite sex couples who either choose not to have children or are naturally incapable of doing so?  Are their marriages invalid?  Should opposite sex couples only marry if they plan to reproduce?  Should opposite sex couples who choose not to have children by forbidden from marrying?  Friends, I don't think this argument by the anti-gay crowd flies any more than their ignoring the fact that this country was, at least in theory, founded on the principle that everyone is created equally and should have equal opportunity.

Some say that same sex couples are unnatural, yet there are numerous examples of homosexual behavior in the natural world.  Some say homosexuality is a mental illness, yet the APA ceased listing homosexuality as a mental condition many, many years ago.  Some say being gay is a "choice", so I ask my heterosexual readers one more time, when did you "choose" to be straight?  (I am still waiting on someone to answer that question from the last time I asked it.)

And this one really puzzles me....................  Some say they are against same sex unions because they "don't want to pay for it".  For the life of me, I've no idea what they think they are going to pay for, and I surely wish someone would enlighten me.

I could give the religious argument against same sex unions more validity, if the same arguments weren't used against interracial marriage fifty to sixty years ago.  That being said, would a reasonable compromise be to leave it up to individual denominations to decide whether they want their clergy to perform same sex marriage ceremonies while allowing local officials to perform civil ceremonies in order to provide the legal protections and recognition of same sex couples?

Here is some food for thought.  I have a gay friend who has been with his partner for well over ten years, but they cannot legally be married while an opposite sex couple can legally marry a week after they meet and then divorce six months later. 

Ladies and gentlemen, it is past time for this country to wake up and accept the fact that some of our fellow humans are attracted to the same sex and fall in love with the same sex.  It is also past time that same sex couple who want to make a legal, lifetime commitment to each other be permitted to do so in the spirit of equality and in the spirit of America.

Peace and love, my brothers and sisters.

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Remove The Stigma Of Mental Health Issues

You know what I don't understand?  I don't understand the continued stigma attached to mental illness.  Statistics suggest that one in six Americans are living with a mental illness.  One in six..............  16.7% of the population....................

Mental Health Statistics From The NIMH

One in six....................

If one in six Americans mange metal health issues, why is such a negative stigma still attached to mental illness?  "He is nuts."  "She is psycho."  "They are crazy."  "He is out of his mind."  "She is insane."

One in six...........................

Can we not forgo the labels, and try to accept that these people are managing a legitimate health condition?  Why are those that are mentally ill met with such cruelty and lack of understanding?  Is it because the majority of people have never experienced mental illness?  Does that make it more difficult to empathize Most of us haven't had heart attacks either, but heart patients aren't treated with the contempt that seems to greet most mental health patients.  Shouldn't mental health patients be given the same deference as folks who have other health issues?

One in six.........................

Is mental illness less real because it affects the mind instead of the body?  Is it so difficult to grasp that an illness is an illness regardless of the body system affected?  And the one that really makes me furious is when others suggest that the mentally ill are faking their conditions to get attention.

One in six.........................

I personally have friends and family who are afflicted by mental illness, so I take this personally.  I take it personally when mental health patients continue to have to fight negative stereotypes in addition to their illness.  I ask you, dear readers, to stand with me against the stigma of mental illness and to help me foster understanding of these conditions.  With one in six people affected, you too can make a difference.

Peace and love, my brothers and sisters.

Monday, June 27, 2011

Whatever Happened To Decent Customer Service

You know what I don't understand?  I don't understand what happened to decent customer service.  Let me relate a recent experience with you, dear readers.  Please share your thoughts and opinions with me.

A few weeks ago, I was watching a Major League Baseball game on my HD TV when there was a popping sound, followed by sound but no picture.  The set was over five years old, and this was the first trouble I had with it.  Hey, nothing lasts forever, and it was still under an extended service plan that was purchased along with the set at a local Best Buy store.

Problem One:  When Best Buy was contacted, I was informed that it would take two weeks, TWO WEEKS, for a member of their Geek Squad to come by my home to repair the set.  There had been numerous thunderstorms in my part of the US during this time, and everyone is short staffed in this day and age, so I figured it wasn't that big of a deal.  And it would not have been, but............................

Problem Two:  When the Geek Squad "technician" showed up two weeks later, he practically took the set completely apart right there in my living room, only to announce that he didn't have the correct part to repair the set.  He would be back next week with the proper part.  Really?  It took you two weeks to get someone to my place to look at the set, and he doesn't bring parts to cover every possible root cause of the original issue?

Problem Three:  After the Geek Squad tech had already told me when he would return, I start getting phone calls from the Geek Squad to "schedule my part installation".  So....................they want me to schedule something that was already scheduled.  And you wonder why it takes them two weeks to respond to a problem, but I digress.  After fighting my way through the damn computer system for fifteen minutes and then being directed to three different actual humans, I was assured that the gentleman in question would return on the date and time that he and I agreed on.  Wonderful!!!!  Or maybe not.............

Problem Four:  The day and time of the return visit came and went with no Geek Squad person at my door.  Another fifteen minutes of automated system navigation, another four transfers until I get to someone who has a clue what they are doing.  After a ten minute, very heated conversation, I was informed that they didn't have the part in stock, so they never processed the work order.  This is why no one showed up.  Excuse me?????  And no one had the common courtesy to call and tell me this.  After a minor meltdown on my part, they miraculously find a part, and , lo and behold, the guy can stop by the next day.  Fantastic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Or maybe not so fantastic....................

Problem Five:  Sure enough, the old boy arrives as scheduled with the part in hand.  But.......  Guess what................  You guessed it.  That part doesn't solve the problem either.  Seriously??  I can take my car to a certified mechanic, he or she can plug it into a diagnostic computer, and we will know the problem within minutes, yet we can't do the same for electronic appliances????  Sodding ridiculous!!!!  So............he'll be back in yet another week.  Are y'all keeping track of this?  We are well over a month trying to resolve this problem at this point.

Problem Six:  The day before the guy is supposed to bring the miracle part that will finally repair the bloody set, Best Buy calls................  They no longer make the replacement part in question, so they are going to just replace the set!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Good Lord!!!!!!!!!  Okay, I don't want to sound like a crybaby here, but we've been jacking with this for over a month, and now you're just going to replace the set.  Wouldn't it have made more sense to figure out the root cause during the first visit and then make the determination to replace the set versus fooling around for a month prior to the fact????? 

So off the Best Buy with the paperwork.  They will deliver the new set and haul off the carcass of the old one two days later.  Outstanding!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Or not.................

Problem Seven:  Okay this one is minor, but still!!!!!!!!!!!!!  The damn fools bringing the new set show up a half hour early, and then act like they are annoyed because I wasn't prepared for them when they arrived. 

At least the new set works well.................................so far.

Now, I realize I am griping about a television set here when there are so many huge problems facing our country and mankind in general.  I realize that, looking at the big picture, this annoyance means NOTHING.  However, I long for the days when I was made to feel appreciated as a paying customer of retail and other establishments. 

That being said, my advice, my friends, is to avoid Best Buy and the Geek Squad all together.  Has anyone else had any experiences with them, either positive or negative?  Feel free to share.

Peace and love, my brothers and sisters.

Friday, June 24, 2011

Twatwaffles Of The Week

And away we go..................

Number Five: Nathan Kotylak, a seventeen year old elite member of the men's Canadian water polo team, who was caught lighting a rag on fire that was tucked into the gas tank of a police car during the riot following the Vancouver Canucks' Game 7 loss to Boston in the Stanley Cup Finals. He later apologized.

Elite Canadian Water Polo Player Participates In Vancouver Riot

His apology was tearful and seemed sincere. However, since he is an elite athlete, he will most likely be dealing with this, and its effect on his life, long after others arrested that night will be telling stories about it over pints of Molson. And since he is an elite athlete, he should have known better than to become involved in mob mentality. He did not have the foresight to avoid such a situation, and that is why he is a twatwaffle.

Number Four: Rush Limbaugh who recently inanely suggested that President Obama wants to "lose the war in Afghanistan” and his "Democratic base" wants the same. He then, in his fine, upstanding manner, also essentially compared the president to Adolph Hitler.

Limbaugh: Obama Is Like Hitler and Wants to Lose In Afghanistan

Well, Rush, it has been quite a while since you made the list, but I knew I could count on you to say something utterly idiotic to make your way back to a place of dishonor. Item the first: This nonsense that Democrats are either weak on defense or want to lose wars has no basis in fact, and frankly it is insulting. Perhaps we should review what party the president was when the US won WW I, WW II, and Korea. Perhaps we should review who went eye to eye with the Soviets during the Cuban Missile Crisis. Strangely, there isn't a Republican in the group.

Now, I realize that "Bring It On" and "Mission Accomplished" is easier for Rush to understand than the nuances and extensive vocabulary used by President Obama, but can we please stop with the silliness about the president and Democrats wanting to lose wars? The American people are war weary as is our military. It is time to bring these wars to a responsible, honorable end. I should also like to note that Candidate Obama campaigned on these very points, so it shouldn't come to a surprise to anyone. Do us all a favor, Rush. Pop a few more Oxycontin and fade away like the ball of hot air that you are.

Number Three: Staff members at The Pavilion, a public pool and recreation center in Hazard, KY, who took it upon themselves to order two developmentally disabled gay men from their publically funded (key words: PUBLICALLY FUNDED) facility and then justified their actions by stating that the Bible justifies banning gays from sharing public pools.

Gays Can't Swim In Our Pool Because My Bible Tells Me So

Ladies and gentlemen, where to begin? The homophobia? The religious bullying? The overt bigotry and prejudice? The maltreatment of the developmentally disabled? The whole matter is sickening. At what point will people realize that LGBT Americans not only want to be treated like everyone else, but also have every right to be treated like everyone else????

Number Two: Mahmoud Abdel-Salam Omar, 74, the chairman of a salt company who once headed an Egyptian bank. Mr. Omar, who was accused of sexually abusing an employee at a luxury hotel in New York pleaded guilty Friday to sex abuse in the third degree and will also face a $5 million lawsuit.

Egyptian Exec Pleads Guilty To Sexually Assaulting Hotel Maid

Okay, here we go again. Why do rich guys, specifically rich, old guys, think that female hotel employees are their personal playthings?

Hotel Confidential

Folks, I realize that men who stay in $5,000 per night hotel suites on a regular basis are used to getting their way and not hearing "no", but........................ Much like one or both parties being under the influence, wealth and power are no excuses for sexual assault!!!! These ladies are trying to make an honest living. They are there to provide hospitality and a pleasant stay in a hotel. They are not there for you to have your way with while you are away from home!!!!!

Number One: Fawn C. Lloyd of Tampa, FL, who was arrested after being allegedly observed stealing flowers, stuffed animals, and flags from graves at a local cemetery.

Stealing From the Dead

Can a person get much lower than stealing from the dead? I think not. Again, friends, I don't make this stuff up. I just report it.

Peace and love, my brothers and sisters.

Thursday, June 23, 2011

Your Life Can End In The Blink Of An Eye, So Enjoy It

Ladies and gentlemen, during my years on the fire service, I have seen many sudden and traumatic deaths.   Sometimes it can take a psychological toll on a person. Now, don't misunderstand, I love practicing emergency medicine, and it is an honor and privilege to serve on my department. I am proud of each and every man and woman with whom I serve. However, being around illness and death on a regular basis makes one look at things a little differently than most.

I guess the one thing that I have really learned since I have been involved in EMS is that you never know when it is your last day on Earth. Sometimes, lives end suddenly and with no warning whatsoever. There are no fireworks, no drum rolls, and no trumpets. One second, you're there; the next second, you're not. If you think you are guaranteed another day, you aren't. Each day is a gift and not a right.

To that end, live each day as if you won't be given another. Slow down and smell the roses, as it were. Take notice and enjoy the little things. Listen to a child laugh. Practice random acts of kindness and generosity. Watch an old TV show. Laugh at a stupid joke. Take your kid to a ballgame or a movie. Read a book. Do the best you can at work, but always remember that your employer won't take care of you in your old age, assuming you make it that far. Treat others with warmth and respect. Don't be so wrapped up in yourself that you forget about a whole world that is around you.

Above all, remember that tomorrow may never come.

Peace and love, my brothers and sisters.

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Right Wing Extremists On The Rise

You know what I don't understand? I don't understand the rise in right wing extremists groups and white supremacist groups in the US. Frankly, I don't understand the existence of these groups period, but I certainly don't understand why the number, and number of members, of these groups are on the upswing.

Extremist Groups on the Rise

For the record, the attached article from the AP discusses a rise in these groups in the Northwestern US, but it seems obvious that this problem is not geographically isolated to one part of our country. That being said, let's review some of the things these groups stand for.

They are "anti-government". Okay, what does that mean exactly? Are they against the federal government? Are they against their respective state governments? Regardless, what I find so ridiculous about this is that so many of the members of these groups want to stand on soapboxes and bellyache about law and order, call themselves "patriots", and blather on about the Constitution, yet they are against legally, Constitutionally elected governments? They talk about law and order, but fire weapons at law enforcement officers?

They rail against "big government" and "government intrusion" into their lives while driving on federally funded highways to attend their rallies where security will be provided by locally funded police officers, firefighters, and EMS providers. They will then fly home from federally funded airports with federally funded air marshals on the flights where they will eat food screened for safety by state funded food safety workers. I would also be willing to bet none of them turn down their Medicare cards or social security checks either.

Obviously socialism really has run amok here in America, and all of these services should be privatized as soon as possible!!! Am I the only one who sees the utter hypocrisy and lack of logic here? If these people weren't so dangerous, even deadly at times, it would actually be funny.

Of course, the number, and activity level, of these groups has increased exponentially since President Obama's election in 2008. Of course, it isn't racially motivated. It is because Mr. Obama is a "socialist". I am sure the increase in white supremacist groups is merely coincidental. (I shall also state for the umpteenth time that most of those who shriek about Mr. Obama being a "socialist" would not know a true socialist if Karl Marx shook their hands. I have a dear friend who escaped from a true socialist country with her parents many years ago, and I truly wish the dunderheads who so flippantly toss that word about could hear her story.) I am sure the fact that Mr. Obama has been subjected to more threats on his life than any other president in history is also a coincidence. I am sure the attempted bombing of a Martin Luther King, Jr. Day parade in Spokane was yet another chance happening.

Folks, is this 2011 or 1964? We elected an African-American president, yet racism runs rampant in our country. Black folks have achieved prominence in all aspects of society, yet they are still stereotyped as lazy, uneducated, promiscuous, ignorant, and prone to criminal activity. African-Americans are elected officials, CEOs, heads of industry, lawyers, physicians, nurses, police officers, firefighters, EMTs, accountants, farmers, and members of all other professions imaginable, yet so many members of our populace think all they are capable of is playing basketball and rapping.

Dear readers, all people are equal. We all come from the same God. We all deserve equal opportunity and equal protection. It is too bad members of these racist groups don't, or won't, understand this basic premise.

Peace and love, my brothers and sisters.

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Rick Santorum Is Against All Abortions Except For His Wife's??

You know what I don't understand? I don't understand how Republican presidential candidate, former Pennsylvania senator Rick Santorum, can be so steadfast in his assertion that abortion should be illegal in absolutely all cases and that physicians who provide the service should be prosecuted when his wife, Karen, is reported to have had an abortion.

Santorum Is against Abortion Unless HIs Wife Needs One

So let's see if I understand this. Santorum thinks women should bear the children of rapists and incestuous relatives while their medical doctors should be criminalized for providing abortion services. Santorum thinks that all abortions should be illegal even if the mother's health is at stake unless it is his wife's well being that is at stake.

The hypocrisy is astounding.

Or is it?

Folks, as a pro-choice American, I am not too sure this story passes the smell test. Let me elaborate. Did Karen Santorum's physician intentionally terminate her pregnancy, or did Karen Santorum suffer irreversible premature labor resulting in the loss of her fetus? If it is the latter, Mrs. Santorum had a spontaneous abortion, what laymen refer to as a "miscarriage", which is a totally different matter than an elective abortion, which is the medically induced termination of a pregnancy.

The End of Karen Santorum's Pregnancy

Are Pro-Choice Activists Lying About Santorum's Abortion?

You know, folks, it is extraordinarily difficult to sift through the falderal on the internet regarding this topic. Frankly, I don't know what the truth is; and equally bluntly, if Karen Santorum had an elective abortion, I doubt very seriously if Rick Santorum will ever admit to it.

What I do know is this. If Mrs. Santorum did, indeed, undergo medically necessary elective abortion in order to save her life, Candidate Santorum has no right whatsoever to deny the right to the same life saving procedure to any other American woman.

What I also know is that if fellow pro-choice Americans are twisting, distorting, and/or spinning the facts of this matter into half-truths to suit their agenda, they are behaving unconscionably; as unconscionably as those who harass, intimidate, and threaten women entering abortion clinics. If we want reproductive choice to remain the law of the land, we must present our case factually and without the heated, baseless pretentious moral outrage often put forth by the pro-birth crowd.

Take one thing away from this, ladies and gentlemen. Pregnancy, sex, reproduction, childbirth, choice, and abortion are highly sensitive, personal matters. Can we agree that they are no one's business or concern but the mother, the father, their physician, and their God? If so, then you understand why I am a pro-choice American.

Peace and love, my brothers and sisters.

Friday, June 17, 2011

Twatwaffles Of The Week

And away we go...............................

First a repeat Dicknozzle Of Douchebaggery: Major League Baseball for continuing this God forsaken interleague play. HATE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Number Five: While we are on the sports theme, "fans" of the Vancouver Canucks, who took it upon themselves to riot after the Canucks lost the Stanley Cup Final to Boston, which marred a highly entertaining Final and left a black eye on a vibrant and cosmopolitan city. (This same behavior occurred in 1994 when the Canucks lost to the New York Rangers.)

Vancouver Hockey Fans Riot after Cup Final Loss

Yeah, guys, it is bad enough when "fans" in winning cities act like morons, but when your team loses, try crying in your whisky and lamenting about getting them next year. See "Cubs, Chicago" for details on how this is done.

Number Four: An as of yet unidentified woman riding on a New York Metro North train, who proceeded to launch into a tirade about how "well educated" she is when asked by a conductor to talk more quietly and refrain from using profanity on her cell phone.

A Well Educated Boor?

Okay, lady, I don't care if you have a wall full of diplomas, you're STILL bloody rude!!!!!! No one wants to hear you yap on your cell phone at ear splitting levels. Have some common courtesy.

Number Three: House Speaker John Boehner (R-OH), who has allegedly been involved in at least two extramarital affairs while bellowing about how Rep. Anthony Weiner (D-NY) should immediately resign from congress due to his recent indiscretions, an opinion that this writer shared. However, the hypocrisy is just mind boggling.

We Are Now Awaiting Your Resignation, Speaker Boehner

Yes, folks, another one of those high and mighty, God is on our side, family values Republicans appears to be sleeping around on his wife. We will see how quickly they clamor for Boehner's resignation as they did for Weiner's.

Number Two: Conservative and Republican office holders, pundits, bloggers, etc, who has been shrieking and wailing about Rep. Weiner, his immorality, his lack of respect for his marriage, how he should have immediately resigned (okay, I agree with them on that point), and the reaction of Democratic Congressional Leadership to his issues, while acting as though they aren't the party of Larry Craig, Newt Gingrich, Mark Foley, Arnold Schwarzenegger, and so on; and while completely ignoring the fact that they originally jumped to their scandal ridden colleagues' defense until the evidence of their guilt became overwhelming.

Give it a rest, guys, scumbags aren't just found on one side of the aisle. There are plenty on both sides to go around.

Number One: Tom MacMaster, an American man studying in Scotland who created the online blog known as "A Girl Gay in Damascus". The Gay Girl in Damascus blog, dating back to February this year, claimed to document the life of 25-year-old Amina Abdallah Arraf al-Omari, a half-Syrian, half American lesbian living in Damascus. We know this blog is a total work of fiction as put forth by MacMaster.

Girl Gay in Damascus Is and American in Scotland?

Sir, you may very well be as passionate about gay rights and the persecution of gays worldwide as I, and so many others who fight for this cause are, but this type of thing sets us back fifty years, and give the anti-gay crowd yet more nonsensical fodder to use against us. We can only hope you see the error of your ways and never behave in such an abominable manner again.

Peace and love, my brothers and sisters.

Thursday, June 16, 2011

RIP Firefighter Scott Davis, Munice, IN Fire Department

Today, we take a break from our regular format to honor the memory of firefighter Scott Davis of the Muncie, IN fire department who was killed in the line of duty yesterday.  Let this be a reminder to the general public to give more than a passing thought to those who put their lives in danger for the greater good, and let this be a reminder to those of us who are members of the fire service to always respect and honor those who share this call of duty.  One never knows when one may answer the bell for the last time.

RFB Firefighter Scott Davis, EOW, 6/15/11

Rest in peace, Brother.

Firefighter Scott Davis, Munice, IN FD LODD

Munice Church Fire Video

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Fake News, I Mean--Fox News Is At It Again

Well, ladies and gentlemen, the fair and balanced folks at Fox News are at it again. Eric Bolling, who hosts "Follow The Money" on Fox Business is facing allegations of racism after referring to the White House as the "Hizzouse," "Hizzy" and "The Big Crib," and guests of the administration as "hoods."

Fair and Balanced Reporting From Faux News

This is not Bollings' first dust up involving racially charged commentary as he showed a great deal of class in suggesting President Obama was "chugging 40s" during his recent trip to Ireland.

Bolling used this fair and balanced terminology while criticizing President Obama for inviting Gabon's president Ali Bongo at the White House. I might take this opportunity that state that I myself shared Bollings' displeasure with the Bongo visit to the White House as did many others. It is just unfortunate that Bolling resorted to such racially charged commentary to make his point. As noted, however, this is not his first incident of this kind, and it certainly seems to be a pattern at Faux News. Recently, John Stossel opened himself up to criticism for using an Obama impersonator to stage a mock debate with a little known GOP presidential candidate.

So let's review, Faux News, with their fair and balanced reporting, have these two insults to television journalists on their payroll along with Bill O'Reilly, Sarah Palin (who may be currently off their payroll while she makes up her mind whether to run for president or not), and Mike Huckabee, along with a multitude of other right-wing poster children. Fair and balanced? Sure, they are, and MSNBC doesn't lean so far to the left that they are almost horizontal.

They report. We decide. I've decided they are a bloody joke. It is just too bad so many people actually take them seriously.

Peace and love, my brothers and sisters.

Monday, June 13, 2011

Criminal Charges For Physicians Who Perform Abortions For Rape And Incest Victims???

You know what I don't understand? I don't understand how Republican presidential candidate, former Pennsylvania Senator Rick Santorum, can actually state that he believes medical doctors who perform abortions for victims of rape and incest should face criminal charges. (Thanks to my dear friend, Mira, for the tip.) Really? Has he no shame or sense of decency?

Rick Santorum Would Make Criminals of Doctors Who Perform Abortions on Rape or Incest Victims

You know, I am pro-choice. I have been pro-choice my whole adult life. I don't see that ever changing, but I have a great deal of respect for a certain faction of the pro-life crowd while having NO respect for the pro-birth folks, who lose interest in the child the moment it exits the birth canal. However, I find this absolutely unconscionable. A woman gets pregnant as a result of being raped, or a woman becomes pregnant due to an incestuous relationship, and Rick Santorum thinks the medical doctor who provided her with an abortion should face criminal charges. Now, Santorum has, in that huge compassionately conservative heart of his, found the kindness to not charge the woman who sought the abortion, which is more than I can say for some of the pro-birth crowd. No. He just wants the health care provider to face criminal prosecution. Repulsive.

Even though I have a fundamental disagreement with the pro-birth/pro-life folks regarding a woman's right to choose what to do with her own body, I, on a certain level, can see their point. However, how do they justify prosecuting (and prosecuting them with what crime, pray tell?) a physician for terminating a pregnancy resulting from two of the most heinous crimes that a woman can suffer? How do they justify telling a woman who was raped that if she chooses to terminate the resulting pregnancy that her doctor may go to jail for performing the procedure? How do they justify telling a woman who is pregnant because of an incestuous relationship that there aren't any physicians available to provide an abortion for her because they will face criminal charges if they do?

I just don't understand it, folks, and I don't see how anyone with any common sense or compassion can justify this stance.

Peace and love, my brothers and sisters.

Friday, June 10, 2011

Twatwaffles Of The Week

And away we go.......................

Number Five: Comedian and "30 Rock" star, Tracy Morgan, who during a 3 June 11 stand up set in Nashville, TN, launched into a homophobic tirade that included the hysterical (note dripping sarcasm, dear readers) thought of stabbing his son to death if his son were gay.

Tracy Morgan apologizes for being a clod..................

Okay, folks, one more time.................. It is not, I say again----NOT, acceptable to use homophobic slurs and/or make fun of the bullying that LGBT people endure on a daily basis as part of a comedy routine or anything else. Can we not find humor without vilifying others? Just a thought.........

Number Four: A combination of seven people who were arrested for gang raping a junior high school girl at a party in Mexico City along with the pieces of human debris who took it upon themselves to make video recordings of the attack without making any effort to intervene.

Gang Rape of School Girl Captured On Cell Phones

Ladies and Gentlemen, I don't know which of these I find more repulsive. First off, what kind of animals drug and rape a JUNIOR HIGH SCHOOL GIRL???? The story isn't clear about whether the victim was intoxicated through her own actions or if she was drugged before being assaulted. Bluntly, folks, I don't really care if she got loaded on her own, that is no excuse whatsoever to take advantage of her. Further, the fact that the alleged attackers were under the influence is also no excuse. I have said a thousand times before, and I shall say one hundred thousand more times in the future that anyone being high, drunk, or a combination thereof, is no excuse for sexual assault and/or rape.

That being said, it is equally disgusting, if not more so, that this attack was videotaped by a group of people who apparently made no effort whatsoever to stop the rape from continuing. Is this what society has come to? A bunch of bottom feeders who think it is acceptable to watch, and record, a young girl being gang raped while doing nothing to help her? It is mind numbing to say the least; and before any of my more racially insensitive readers make any comments about this heinous act happening in Mexico, I would like to remind everyone that many incidents similar to this have taken place right here in the good old USA.

Number Three: Tamiru Etana Gillede of Houston, TX, who allegedly ran over his wife and daughter with his car near an elementary school after the man, had argued with his wife.

Man Runs Down Wife and Daughter after Argument

Let's review.................. He was trying to go to work. She, for whatever reason, was trying to prevent him from doing so. His level headed response? Returning to the area where they lived, intentionally driving his car onto the soddding sidewalk, and striking his wife and daughter, causing the daughter to suffer severe head trauma. Yeah, that makes sense. Maybe the next time one of my fellow students wants me to blow off class, I will respond by setting fire to my house. Good Lord, I ask again, friends and frenemies, what are human beings coming to? Have we no sense of decency or understanding of the value of human life?

Number Two: The parent, or parents, of a five year old Kansas City, MO, girl who has been charged with intentionally drowning 18-month-old Jermane Johnson Jr. because the toddler "cried too much", "made too much noise", and she "didn't like him". The five year old................... You know what? I need to say that again to be sure everyone understands...................... THE FIVE YEAR OLD................. The five year old was without parental supervision, although there was a mentally handicapped 16 year old "babysitter" in the house, but she was asleep at the time.

Five Year Old Toddler Is A Killer?

Folks, I don't even know where to start................ It is really difficult for me to label a five year old child as a twatwaffle. Seriously, at that age, they don't really understand right from wrong, or the permanency of death. However, what does chill me to the bone is that the child admitted to law enforcement she did it on purpose. She purposely drowned a defenseless eighteen month toddler. I find that beyond disturbing.

However, I would like to know where the parents were? I would like to know why they left a mentally handicapped sixteen year old in charge of a five year old and an eighteen month old. I could almost accept a sixteen year old baby sitter, but a sixteen year old with limited mental capacities? Should the parents have not had a more responsible and capable person looking after these young children? My statement about five year olds not really grasping right from wrong notwithstanding, will someone please give me an idea about how this five year old has been raised to lead her to believe that it is okay to kill a toddler that she finds annoying? Again, my finger is pointed directly at the parents. I am not sure how the State of Missouri will deal with a five year old killer, but I certainly hope the five year old killer's parents are prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law.

Number One: Said Biyad, a man convicted of killing his four children in 2006, who was sentenced to life without the possibility of parole in Louisville, KY this week.

Somalian immigrant Siyad Biyad has been in jail since the October 6, 2006 deaths of his four young children - ages 8, 7, 4, and 2 - in the apartment where they all lived. During the trial, Biyad's wife testified that on the day of the murders, Biyad became enraged when she got home from work, and beat and raped her until he passed out and then killed the four children. All four children had their throats slashed, and Biyad's oldest son had been struck in the head. Biyad's wife was left for dead as she frantically called 911.

The judge called it "the most horrific crime scene" he had ever seen.

Man Kills Children Gets Life without Parole

Again, ladies and gentlemen, I don't know where to start. I don't know what to say. All I can say is that human beings are oftentimes the most evil, vile creatures on the planet.

Peace and love, my brothers and sisters.

Thursday, June 9, 2011

Have We Not Established That Being LGBT Is NOT A Choice?

You know what I don't understand? I don't understand why there is a segment of our population who still insists that being LGBT is some type of choice and can be changed. Today, I shall share two tragic examples of what can happen when this type of thinking prevails.

In the first example, a young boy who exhibited "feminine" characteristics underwent experimental therapy to make him more masculine. Arguably, the end result was the young man's suicide in the prime of his life.

Turn The Sissy Into A Man!!!!!

So.............this anti-gay activist and "therapist", who in a delicious and almost expected turn of events was later observed with a male escort, feels he can "cure" your gay son by denying him attention from his mother, having his father savagely beat him when his behavior is not masculine enough, and other barbaric treatment. The man is without question subhuman.

Now, I suppose the case could be made that this "therapy" took place in the 1970s, and we have come a long way since then. The problem with that is that Mr. Rekers is still looked upon as an expert and leading voice by some in the anti-gay movement. It is certainly interesting how they seem to be able to overlook HIS apparent homosexual tendencies, but I digress. The other issue I have with this is that "Kraig" was hailed as a success story by the anti-gay crowd until the news about his suicide broke. Much like prisoners who are tortured, I would imagine that if any of us were subjected to the savagery that Kirk Murphy endured, we would do or say virtually anything to make it stop, and I fully suspect that we would carry the psychological scars long after the physical ones healed.

The other example involves a transgender prisoner who has attempted to castrate herself on more than one occasion due to the Virginia Department of Corrections refusing her requests for sexual reassignment surgery.

Denial of Surgery Leads to Self-Mutilation

So..................... Let's see if we understand this case. Prisoners are rightfully provided with health care except in this instance where sexual reassignment surgeries are still widely viewed as expensive vanity projects for the least vocal letter in the LGBT community, and not seen as the absolute medical necessity that they are. Nobody chops off their own penis in the face of potential death on a whim. Ophelia De’lonta, like thousands of others, was driven to action because she suffers from an unmet medical need.

27,000 Americans have gender identity disorder, resulting in 500-750 sexual reassignment surgeries each year. For every person with access to these oftentimes life-saving treatments, many are forced to go without.

“Everybody has the right to have their health care needs met, whether they are in prison or out on the streets. People in the prisons who have bad hearts, hips or knees have surgery to repair those things,” Michelle Kosilek told The Associated Press in a recent phone interview from a state prison in Norfolk, Mass.

“My medical needs are no less important or more important than the person in the cell next to me.”

Federal courts have said prisons must provide adequate medical care, and that they must protect inmates from themselves. But correctional officials and lawmakers balk at using taxpayer money for sex-change operations that can cost up to $20,000.

Again, ladies and gentlemen, I think the root cause of this matter is the belief that being LGBT is a choice; as if these ladies chose to be the way they are, and in a male correctional facility no less. Can you only imagine the harassment, unwelcome advances, assaults, and rapes they must endure on a daily basis?

While these examples may be extreme, they speak to the larger issue of sexual orientation not being a choice; and for those who suggest it is I would like for you to answer one simple question for me...............

When did you decide or choose to be straight?

Peace and love, my brothers and sisters.

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

Rep. Weiner, We Are Awaiting Your Resignation

You know what I don't understand? I don't understand why Rep. Anthony Weiner (D-NY) is still in office. He sent lurid photos of himself to females on social networking websites, he had X-rated conversations online and over the phone, and he may very well have used his taxpayer funded office to carry out these tasteless activities. Yet, he still occupies that office while the leadership of his own party calls for an ethics investigation. Why?

Weiner-Gate Continues

I do have to say I am a bit bemused by the Republican shrieking and wailing about Weiner's indiscretions. I can only speak for myself, dear readers, but I find it very difficult to swallow the party of Larry Craig, Mark Sanford, John Ensign, Mark Foley, and Arnold Schwarzenegger's blathering about Weiner's immoral behavior, lack of respect for his marriage, lack of "family values", and so on.

That being established, Weiner knowingly engaged in lurid behavior, tried to cover it up, bold face lied about it, and possibly abused taxpayer funds in the process. I am a liberal Democrat, and I say that you, sir, are a disgrace to our party, the House of Representatives, our nation, and yourself. It is no wonder so many average Americans hold politicians in such contempt. Save us all the time and embarrassment of seeing you and your family drug through the mud by the media and the ethics committee, and resign your seat immediately.

Assuming you have the common sense and decency to do so, here is hoping that you will never be seen, nor heard from, again. Good riddance to bad garbage.

Peace and love, my brothers and sisters.

Monday, June 6, 2011

Sarah Palin's Revisionist History

Well, folks, have you heard the latest on Sarah Palin's "Revere-gate" flap? She is now claiming that she was, in fact, correct when she stated that Paul Revere warned the British during his famous midnight ride. To make it worse, it would appear that some of her supporters have been trying to edit Wikipedia to Palin's revised version of American history.

Let's Here From Revere Himself

Palin Screwed Up Again? Just Rewrite History......

Ladies and gentlemen, I don't know which is worse. The fact that Sarah Sixpacck won't just admit she made a mistake or that her fan club is trying to rewrite our nation's history. I guess Palin's refusal to admit an error shouldn't come as a surprise. This is the same person who didn't know the duties of the vice-president when she was a candidate for that very office, couldn't name a Supreme Court ruling with which she disagreed, and has no grasp of foreign policy. Her inability to articulate herself and put together a logical train of thoughts would be laughable, save the fact that a segment of our populace, for reasons I cannot fathom, actually think this late night TV punch line is a viable candidate for leader of the free world.

I must say that it is equally disturbing that some of Palin's supporters have taken it upon themselves to update Wikipedia, and heaven knows what else, to try to change history to suit her new version of Paul Revere's ride. Some of the same Tea Party members that like to read the Constitution during their rallies, that like to act as though they are the only real Americans left, and that like to tout their unflappable knowledge of our country and her history now want to rewrite history to cover another of their poster child's gaffes? Shameful.

My father is a very wise man, and he taught me that "when (I) am up to my nose in s**t, (I) should keep my mouth shut". Perhaps Palin and her supporters should take his advice.

Peace and love, my brothers and sisters.

Friday, June 3, 2011

Twatwaffles Of The Week

And away we go...........................

Number Five:  Rep. Anthony Weiner (D-NY), who may, or may not, have sent a lewd crotch shot of himself to a 21 year old female college student who follows his Twitter account.  Did he send it?  Was his account hacked?  I suspect only he knows, but what I can say is that his behavior since the incident first occurred has done nothing to instill confidence in him.  He has been evasive.  He has been rude with reporters.  He has, as of today, essentially refused to comment on the matter further.  My suggestion would be to make a statement and stick with it.  Otherwise, he looks guilty whether he is or not.

Weiner Shows His Weiner?

Number Four:  Former North Carolina Senator and Democrat Party presidential candidate, John Edwards, who was indicted today on charges of using what were basically campaign contributions to support his mistress, Rielle Hunter, with whom he fathered a child.  I should note that Mr. Edwards ongoing affair while his wife, Elizabeth, was dying of cancer earned him Twatwaffle status last year.  Yes, he is a repeat offender, and a true twatwaffle to the core.

Edwards The Dirtbag Strikes Again

Number Three:  Sarah Palin, who in her infinite wisdom, recently declared that Paul Revere warned THE BRITISH during the Revolutionary War.  Yes, once again, Sarah Sixpack has opened her pie hole and inserted her Made In The USA work boot in it.  For the record, Revere warned THE AMERICANS of an impending British attack.  Hence his famous, "The British are coming!!!!  The British are coming!!!"  Oh, but Palin represents real America.  She speaks for honest, God fearing, Tea Party types.  Actually, she may since most of them are clueless about history as well.  Really, Sarah, would you please take your bumbling, crass,  misstepping, misspeaking self back to Alaska where you belong?  Those of us who see you for the caricature you are have had more than enough of you.

The Americans Are Coming?????

Number Two:  Rebecca Colleen Christie of New Mexico, who was recently sentenced in federal court to twenty five years in prison for her November, 2009 second degree murder and child abandonment conviction for letting her three and a half year old daughter, Brandi Wulf, die from malnutrition and dehydration while she played World of Warcraft on her computer.  Christie's ex-husband, U.S. Air Force Sgt. Derek Wulf, earns Dicknozzle Of Doucebaggery dishonors for pleading guilty to child neglect.  It seems he had issues with his ex-wife's ability to care for the child but didn't see fit to alert authorities.  What can I add to this, dear readers?  This is a tragic story and further proof that parenting skills do not occur naturally to humans.  They must be learned.  It is also further proof that we all need to be on the alert for "parents" who abuse or neglect their children.  It IS your business.  You DO need to get involved.  Please.  I'm begging you.  If one child is saved from this type of tragedy, it will be worth it.

Mother Of The Year..............

Number One:  Richard Tice, Sr., 63, of Oak Harbor, WA, who admitted to raping two children, but then blamed his actions on.................................the four year old victim.  The four year old victim.  Folks, I don't make this stuff up.

Sicko Of The Year?

Peace and love, my brothers and sisters.

Thursday, June 2, 2011

Why Must We Label People?

You know what I don't understand? I don't understand why so many folks insist on labeling people. Ladies and gentlemen, you know the kind of thing I mean..............

"The queer from ABC Company."

"The rag head across the street."

"That dyke in accounting."

"The spics down the block."

"That fat bastard who works at the hardware store."

"The kike who cuts our grass."

Really, dear readers, this kind of thing really grates on my nerves. Must we address other human beings in such derogatory and disrespectful terms? Can we not celebrate our differences without insulting each other?

Here is an idea. Everyone has a name. Why don't we try using them instead of these inane labels?

Peace and love, my brothers and sisters.

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

June Is Gay Pride Month

LGBT pride or gay pride is the concept that lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) people should be proud of their sexual orientation and gender identity.  The movement has three main premises: that people should be proud of their sexual orientation and gender identity, that diversity is a gift, and that sexual orientation and gender identity are inherent and cannot be intentionally altered. The use of the abbreviated gay pride and pride have since become mainstream and shorthand expressions inclusive of all individuals in various LGBT communities.

The word pride is used in this case as an antonym for shame, which has been used to control and oppress LGBT persons throughout history. Pride in this sense is an affirmation of one's self and the community as a whole. The modern "pride" movement began after the "Stonewall riots" in 1969. Instead of backing down to unconstitutional raids by New York City Police Department, gay people in local bars fought back. While it was a violent situation it also gave the underground community the first sense of communal pride in a very well publicized incident. From the yearly parade that commemorated the anniversary of the Stonewall riots began a national grassroots movement. Today many countries around the world celebrate LGBT pride.

The pride movement has furthered the cause of gay rights by lobbying politicians, registering voters and increasing visibility to educate on issues important to LGBT communities. LGBT pride advocates work for equal "rights and benefits" for LGBT people

If you are LGBT, if you have friends or family who are, or if you merely realize that gay people deserve equal rights and protection, I urge you to use this month to stand with our gay and lesbian brothers and sister as they fight for acceptance and equality.

Peace and love, my brothers and sisters.